Contemplating Over Major Choices? Here are a Dozen Pointers to Ponder Before You Leap
Susie Moore, Greatist's life coach columnist and a confidence coach based in New York City, offers valuable insights on making big decisions. Here's a roundup of her advice on the subject.
Every Tuesday, you can find Susie's latest column, aptly named "No Regrets." Check back to gain wisdom from her experience and learn how to make decisions without looking back.
Making a big decision can be overwhelming, but Moore suggests considering it in the broader context of your life. By doing so, you can put things into perspective and make decisions that align with your long-term goals.
When it comes to seeking advice, Moore emphasises that your inner wisdom holds the answers. While it's not necessary to ask others what they think, it can be helpful to discuss your thoughts with trusted individuals.
As for the ideal time to make a decision, Moore points out that there are few real reasons to delay making a big decision when it presents itself. However, if you feel that the current time isn't right, she advises setting a deadline for yourself. But be mindful not to wait too long, as deadlines made further than six months out rarely work because we cannot "taste" them.
The decision-making process doesn't have to be a chore. Moore encourages us to embrace the change that comes with making big decisions and to anticipate the fun that can come from it. Change is scary, but growth never happens without it.
If you're still doubtful, Moore suggests looking to your past experiences for guidance. Reflect on times when you had to make big decisions before. Did you survive? Are you happy you made them? How can past choices inform you in making this choice?
Lastly, Moore offers free weekly wellness tips on her website. Sign up to receive these tips and continue your journey towards making informed decisions and living a fulfilling life.
In addition, the book "Die groΓe Entscheidung: Wie Sie sich entscheiden sollten" was written by Heinz von FΓΆrster, which might also provide helpful insights on decision-making.
