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Five Methods of Physically Harmful Actions That Narcissists Employ Towards Their Partners

Narcissistic Spousal Abuse: Five Methods of Physically Harmful Behavior

Five Methods of Capricious Physicial Maltreatment Narcissists Employ Towards Spouses
Five Methods of Capricious Physicial Maltreatment Narcissists Employ Towards Spouses

Five Methods of Physically Harmful Actions That Narcissists Employ Towards Their Partners

In the complex world of relationships, understanding narcissistic abuse is crucial for identifying and escaping dangerous behaviour.

Firstly, it's important to note that a narcissist's decision to stop their abusive behaviour is best undertaken away from anyone they have harmed in the past. This is because, in a marriage relationship, any form of physical force that results in pain, discomfort, or injury is unacceptable. This includes hitting, kicking, punching, arm twisting, pushing, beating, shoving, biting, slapping, striking with an object, shaking, pinching, choking, hair pulling, dragging, burning, cutting, stabbing, strangling, and force-feeding (including overdose or misuse of drugs).

However, not all narcissists resort to physical abuse. A narcissistic physical abuser is not someone to take lightly. Regardless of what they may say, you cannot make them better. In some cases, the narcissist may intimidate their spouse by standing over them, looking down, getting in their face, and refusing to back off. They may also throw things, break things, or punch walls and doors dangerously close by.

The most dangerous stage is endangerment, where life is in jeopardy. At this stage, the narcissist escalates the attacks with verbal threats of killing their spouse, family members, or themselves, mixed with physical violence and use of weapons.

Interestingly, in Germany, the group identified as physical aggressors linked to Narcissistic Personality Disorder are often women with narcissistic or borderline traits. These individuals have been reported to commit physical violence within toxic partnerships, including acts such as stalking, physical abuse like strangulation, and other controlling or threatening behaviours within intimate relationships.

Moreover, the narcissist may confine their spouse by blocking a doorway, grabbing when trying to leave, locking doors with no key, or tying the person up, causing a feeling of entrapment or imprisonment. They may also limit their spouse's ability to escape, especially in dangerous situations, by driving recklessly, exposing them to severe weather or environmental conditions, taking them to stranded locations, preventing the seeking of medical care, and destroying important personal items.

It's crucial to remember that if you find yourself in a relationship where you feel trapped or abused, there is help available. Reach out to local domestic violence hotlines, seek advice from a trusted professional, or confide in a friend or family member. Your safety and wellbeing are paramount, and it's important to prioritise them.

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