Suspecting Domestic Violence: Victim Signals for Aid in Escaping, Claims Police
In a heartening display of empathy and quick thinking, a good Samaritan in Southern California came to the aid of a woman who was in a domestic violence situation at a convenience store.
The incident, which took place at a 7-Eleven on Fremont and Montezuma Avenue, was captured on body camera video. The video shows a man and a woman standing side-by-side, with the woman using hand signals for help, discreetly indicating her distress.
The hand signal, created by the Canadian Women's Foundation in 2020, is a silent gesture that allows victims of domestic violence to secretly signal for help in person or via video calls. The hand signal involves tucking the thumb into the palm and folding the fingers down to trap the thumb.
Carmen McDonald, the executive director of the Survivor Justice Center, commended the good Samaritan for understanding the woman's distress signals. "Nonverbal communication and keeping an eye on one's surroundings, especially in potentially dangerous situations, is of utmost importance," McDonald emphasized.
The suspect in the case, John Palombi of Glendora, was later seen on the video speaking with officers outside the store. However, when asked to stand up for a search, Palombi took off running. Within seconds, he was tackled by police. Authorities found an active warrant for Palombi and a stun gun in his possession.
Cristina Cortes, with the Downtown Women's Center, encourages people to play a role in addressing and preventing domestic violence. "Domestic violence is a social and public health issue," Cortes stated.
The woman used hand signals behind her back to request help from others. Her actions were noticed by the good Samaritan, who promptly called 911. The quick response of the authorities and the vigilance of the bystander prevented a potential tragedy.
Authorities are holding the suspect without bail. The Canadian Women's Foundation's creation of the hand signal for help in 2020 has proven to be a valuable tool in such situations, particularly during COVID-19 contact restrictions when verbal communication may not be possible or safe.
McDonald plans to discuss the use of hand signals in safety planning with her team at the Survivor Justice Center. The incident serves as a reminder to be aware of our surroundings and to be prepared to help those in need, even in the smallest, most discreet ways.
